Rose is 50-year-old mother of two teenage boys. She has been on her own for years and successful as a mother and professional nurse. Even with a full plate she keeps fit and last year did a half marathon every month, something not many 50-year-old woman are able to complete.
I met Rose about five years ago while training in a local park. She is 5’2” to my 6’4” and sports a constant smile while running. She does like to talk and fills the air with constant conversation. We met a few times to run and enjoyed dinner once. However I was in a relationship at the time. There was chemistry but not enough to cause a chain reaction.
Out of the blue I received a text from Rose. Nothing enticing but a pleasant not that she had just tried on a wetsuit used by triathlon athletes. Of course my mind went to the gutter and asked her how it fit, about slipping it on, needing any assistance, I could physically checking every part, and it is best to check this without any distractions. She replied rather quickly letting me know there was a spot that was tight and some lubricant might need application.
The following is how it all transpired:
-----First I received a series text from Rose after seeing her at the park,
Rh: Not going to make it by the store today. It is always good to 'bump' into you.
Me: Bump and rub is better... oh that's the inside voice. The wetsuits you asked about are 40% off. When ready let me know I help you out. Good seeing you too.
Rh: Yes I agree! (with the initial comment). Ate too much during the holiday which is why I am riding the bike today!
So when are you taking me up in a hot air balloon?
Me: I can make that happen. All of the above. Will get back with ya.
Me: You sound excited about it. What's your email?
-----I find sexting is fun but email can be a lot more intense, so second we exchanged a series of short emails,
Me: Tell me something about you.
Rh: Yes, frisky: apt to do anything, anywhere, spontaneous. So, tell me why you have pierced nipples. I always found that interesting.
Me: Define interesting.....I have one nipple pierced. Several years back I just liked have one done. No tattoos. I have shaved legs because I rode competitively and after having them shaved... I like the smooth. I'll leave the other details for asking or. So tell me about you and yours :-)
Rh: Only 2 ear piercings (total). No tats. Shave my legs daily; have laser removed elsewhere (yes, Boring but classy-- don't think the tat thing is very attractive on women.)
Me: Thought I was going to get a nipple story not ears :-) . I have not seen many tats I like. Some are in interesting locations however. Glad you like classy smooth, more the better.
Rh: No nipple talk till I know you better...lol! All I can say is I have 2 of them and they are quite nice and sensitive! Please tell me you are neither married or living w/a girlfriend or involved seriously w/someone.
Me: I'm not necessary into nipple talk but you asked me about mine. :-) ... I have two also. I have been married twice and have two ex's. Not interested in doing it again. I date and have several friends.
----A Day or two later,
Rh: I tried to 'slip' on a suit at the store Ha! I was sweating by the time I got it on. That in and of itself qualifies as a workout!!
Me: Yes the wetsuits can be a workout. I usually offer to apply generous amounts of the slippery stuff to help... Allied all over... I am an expert ;-).
Rh: Well where we're u when I needed your help...lol!
Me: Might not of been helpful. But we would have had fun.
Rh: Guess that's where the smooth silky shaved legs come in!
Me: It is good to have all the smooth silky working together. Did you get the suit? When you do get it, I will “help”
Rh: Let's go "play" soon I'm training tmr If you are off.
Me: That sounds so inviting. Must admit our conversations have been enticing and erotic even more when I am awake at 1:30am reading your invite.
Rh: WOW! Enticing, inviting and erotic? And this is cyberspace what will it be like face to face? Lol!
Me: Both cyber and in real can have the same attributes.
Rh: Disagree. Better in real life!!
Me: You are right there is nothing better then having all involved sight, touch, feel, taste, scent. Those are not avail in cyber. You also couldn’t enjoy smooth and slipping as an example.
It all comes (cums) together,
Rh: Wetsuit came in...when I need help "slipping" into it.. I'll let u know! Got a free pair of goggles to boot!
Me: It is best in a dim lit room and where everything is smooth. The goggles normally are not needed.
Rh: Ironically that what men say when they are trying to slip you OUT of your clothes! I would like you to flirt w/me in real life... Email good. Face to face better and fun. We act like we live across the world from one another! Lol!!
Me: I very much enjoy the personal physical contact between man and woman also being suggestive in my word. Probably too much :) I am also a relentless flit in email and life especially when a pretty interesting woman like you responds. I enjoy expressing myself.
I am awful at relationships one of my major flaws. Great parent, friend, but am more trouble in relations. It isn't ironic the thought of slipping out of clothes was certainly implied,
Rh: Flattery will get you everywhere!! Keep flirting and I will keep expressing.
I have no expectations. So don't stress. Relationships are hard and what I've noticed is the longer I am single the harder it is to incorporate someone totally. That’s not to say that it's the best feeling in the world to be passionately in love...that's a great thing when with the right person and at the right time...don't worry I'm not ready to get so attached that I lose my identity or independence!!!
I have always been attracted to you! We would enjoy getting to know one another. Whatever that means!
Me: Well then we might have to do a detailed fitting, checking every seam and make sure things go together smoothly. It could take hours and should be done in private, well most the time, may have to be more than once and in different ways, who knows the limits. Hopefully it is exhausting. Flattery will get you anything.
Rh: I may have to have you over for a 'fitting' Tee hee!!! Hmmmmm! It is possible! I'm off tmr.
Me: I work a little later this Friday after a quick stop to change I could come by to see how well it fits. Being a professional I am slow and through. If you are not home to late I think you might enjoy my fitting, I have no doubt I will enjoy. I promise not to leave a square inch to chance. I will enjoy every smooth inch of skin you have to offer.
I remember you told me you shaved which I really like; you will find I am too.
Rh: Call me tomorrow. We'll figure it out.
Me: Ok. I will.
Rh: I am having dinner with a girlfriend, how about meeting later.
Me: Enjoy dinner with her; I can come by after if you want. Is she joining us? ;)
Rh: Is this the kind of service you give everyone? My friend won’t be with me this time. Lol. You are very sensual. So we jump straight to the hot and heavy and skip all the drama and emotional BS??? Sounds like a challenge?? High level of probability!!! Woohoo! (aren't you a math guy?)
Me: I am glad you like challenge. I should let you know, if I am seductive in email, I will be much more in person. We both have an attraction I think. So I like the odds, I am also as sexual as you.
Challenge starts with a little nervous, but I think that will soon pass. Let me tell you my vision for our meet. Like to hear, but only if you tell me yours.
Rh: You think/assume correctly.. I thought you were extremely attractive the first time I met you 5 years ago.
Me: In envision you being a little nervous having a guy over to try on a wetsuit. Well that the excuse anyway. After so many enjoyable flirty communications we have a chance to meet.
The attraction is surly mutual, but we have not come to touch yet. Touch is good. So before we try on that suit I would like to kiss you on the lips and hope to feel you kiss me back. We both have life’s experiences and I think we’ll know if you want me to help with the suit… I feel our real goal is to find ourselves nude in passionate contact.
There are times to move fast and others to move slowly, I feel we’ll know what time it is. Hot and heavy will be up to the chemistry, I do have my prediction. Skipping all the drama and emotional BS is OK with me.
Now if I was to seduce a pretty woman like you. I would first want to feel her next to me standing face to face. I would want to look in her eyes to see if my advance worked and with that knowledge bring her lips to mine. I enjoy kiss and as heat rise explore each other with touch, scent, and taste.
I would like to know by your action that you desire to seduce as well. Mutual attraction and engagement is so good. I would and hope you would explore me with your hands caressing, touch, feel, and hug.
Let me know your vision and if you want me to tell more.
Rh: If you tell me more I'll never sleep tonight.
Well I know that if I am sexual w/you, I want to be the only one. That's not emotional BS that's emotional safety at least for me. I am not into drama
I do believe in chemistry and when 2 consenting adults who are attracted and share the same passions beliefs and character (and the stars are all aligned) then things roll as planned. I say we see where things take us. We are grown ups we can figure out stuff if we are simply honest with one another.
I am totally impressed by the way you just expressed yourself to me. That in and of itself is a big turn on I detest plastic fake people (and I so love your hair.. very sexy !).
The first kiss will tell me a lot. I am not one to jump into the sack quickly and rock your world. I like exclusivity when we advance to that level. PLAY is fun and can be satisfying. Hope to see you tomorrow. Do you ever enjoy a glass of red wine??
Me: We will have a good time. We do not have to have sex to enjoy learning the mystery of the other person. I do enjoy all the carnal endeavors, but I also love touching and feeling. We certainly can play and be satisfied. More can always come in the future.
Rh: Tell me more,
Me: We may retire to somewhere comfortable continue our embrace. As we explore with our hands I would explore you more intimate. Your woman form excites me and I would with permission slowly remove your garb…. As our hot flesh mates in contact I will surly find my way to your smooth womanhood.
Rh: Oh thanks for that steamy excerpt! Now that had to be the most seductive thus far. I will have to seek pleasure from myself!! Lol! Sweet dreams
Me: I will be pleasuring myself too, I keep that story for one of the last chapters. Enjoy you will be part of mine....
Rh: Tell me a little more, I am very turned on.
Me: Ok, Check email. Must admit I am turned on too. I am not a great writer, but I do like to write, I hope you like to read and tell me you thoughts:
We may retire to somewhere comfortable continue our embrace. As we explore with our hands I would explore you more intimate. Your woman form excites me and I would with permission slowly remove your garb. I am a male and know that sight stimulates me, and woman although enjoy are truly stimulated by touch.
Seeing and feeling your smooth skin against mine as my fingers feel your smooth flesh I am sure satisfy us both. In our youth we seemed to always go for all. I like the word used as play, and we will find a way to play as our hot flesh mates in contact. We have learned what makes us excited as normal human being, now we can take a chance and let the other assist.
The smooth touch on every crease becomes the play and game chosen. But in the end there is no question both our needs will be filled.
You might expect when the chemistry is right. My kiss will go beyond you lips to savor your smooth form. I only ask is to be directed to your sensitive points. I will do the rest for you and me.
I think with time we’ll have a night that is good for both. We can learn much and enjoy our playtime. I respect our limits, but I feel will find a way to play.
Tell me in the morning, that you got good pleasure from yourself. Good Night.
Rh: Good morning, wasn't blowing you off. Just woke up after a 12 hr. sleep. I am also not ashamed to reveal that I "take care of business" whenever necessary. Masturbation is a lot safer than promiscuity and I do enjoy it a lot. I hope you do too.
Me: Wow, I did lie in bed last night excited by our exchange and the thought of what might come. Like most fantasy it can be a powerful aphrodisiac. I am not ashamed that I did pleasure myself with the thought of our play. I hope you did too. Save some for later, I like to see a woman pleasure herself.
Rh: I like Pinot Noir or Cabernet La crema is a nice Pinot noir J Lohr is a good cab. Will you enjoy a glass with me before you enjoy me??? Lol!
Me: I truly look forward to getting off with you tonight and I mean it sexually, I think you and I will have great fun and relief. I masturbated with full enjoyment visioning or our exchange, I awoke still excited.... I am very glad you are open that it is something to enjoy. I will enjoy you and you will be satisfied. I hope you enjoy me as much.
You like red wine, I can bring a bottle, tell me what works best for you. You may not like my haircut. It is now short and white. What time is best for you:-)
Rh: I like your white hair.. very natural and sexy with the silvery white color You look like the handsome Peter Graves.
I am waiting for my friend to call me back. She is unpredictable. Sounds like you won't be available till about 8 or 9? That may be perfect. Will you be hungry? I can make some munches.
BTW, I think we both look marvelous for 50's. (I know u thought I was in my 30's lol!). I am proud to be 52. U r 54???
Me: Experience of 56 and the drive of 25.
Rh: I am at dinner. Should I leave?
Me: I am just getting out of my house now. Meet at your house in 20 min work for you? Is your friend going to join us? …. Just kidding
Rh: No, I want you to enjoy me :)
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Night of Play: Seduction, carnal desires, uncommitted sexual play
-----The Next Morning,
Rh: Nice....very nice.....still feel your scent touch and warmth of your body next to me... Wish you were laying here naked with our bodies all intertwined. Have a great day.
Me: It was a fantastic evening.
Rh: Beautiful seduction......you came......you conquered (not necessarily in that order)...... I like you and we could really enjoy being adventurous.
Me: I agree, I want to talk with you later today, are you going to be home?
There is no question that there is an attraction. I really enjoyed our adventure, openness, and satisfaction. Not all that common. If I relive it too much I will be drawn into explicit detail. I do have unresolved relationships I naively thought were past. They are not past. They were in my mind troubling as I lay there and with me right now. I have some emotions that I cannot leave unaddressed. You have much to offer and it would be even more un-responsible if I took advantage. I somehow have been rationalizing. You are more deserving. I wanted to talk to you direct as mature adults, as you are, Let me know if there is time I can call,
Rh: Oh man!!! That just totally sucks for me!!! Coz I like you and was hoping you were available. Sounds like you are not available at this time. Yes, I agree that I am more deserving than to enjoy a man while he is enjoying someone else... That absolutely doesn’t work for me. Timing is the key here. Let's just meet up for a quick face to face just to clear the air. I am not angry in the least just extremely disappointed Call me when you get off tonight and we'll meet.
Rh: Was re-reading your emails and texts. To see if I could have picked up on something. I feel really stupid that I should have been smarter and less vulnerable Maybe I need to be less trusting and guard my heart. Damn I'm giving up on this bull dating game and going back to school.
Me: Simply. Make me a jerk. Sorry for the grief. School is good but there is no need to not take risks. Don’t waste beating up yourself. It is not you.